by Philippe Lewis

Recorded at the Hawaii Tantra Festival 2017

This recording begins about 1/3rd of the class in, after the initial connection exercises that involved walking around being a yes, a maybe, and a no (without specific actions required by the participants)

A lot of lessons can be learned when we can consider that someone's "yes" can change from moment to moment, and when we have to remain curious about someone's feelings, pace, desires and boundaries as time goes by. 

(Special thanks to Betty Marton ( for the inspiration for the exercise where partners ask each other "How would you like to be touched?", which she calls the Three Minute Game)

by Philippe Lewis