Classes @ Serenity Gathering 2019

Classes @ Serenity Gathering 2019

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I will be teaching this class on Sunday

Attachment Theory: A New Way of Looking at Relationships & Intimacy

Ever been in relationship and noticed how you or your partner seemed to be following a sort of unspoken emotional “script” or “dance” leading the two down a path where triggers, difficulties, arguments, challenges, insecurities, and limitations seemed to get the best of you?

If you’ve been on this planet for long enough, you have noticed that these patterns are more or less repeated for you and your partners. Perhaps you are the warm loving one and your partner is the distant one. Perhaps you are the one who needs their freedom and your partner is the needy clingy one. Perhaps you are both so much the same (or your partner is just “okay*) that there is no tension between you and the result is, well, boredom. Perhaps the differences are so wide that while you’re having the most beautiful romantic love story of your life and the hottest sex, you also know that this simply will not work on the long term, because deep down inside you know that what creates the sexual and emotional tension is also what makes this relationship incredibly *unsustainable*. And perhaps you’ve seen yourself enter these relationships again and again and again, always knowing that something is up but never quite knowing WHY.

Enter Attachment Theory, the remarkable view of relationships that pretty much seems to explain EVERYTHING.

If you have not yet, take a minute to read this hilarious article:…/if-people-had-honest-firs…/

Could you relate to either the man or the woman? Chances are you did. Or you read the article and thought: “These people are crazy! I don’t relate to either one bit.”. You’ll likely stand on either side. If you related more to the man, you likely have an avoidant attachment style. If you related more to the women, you likely have an anxious attachment style. If you didn’t relate to either, you likely have a secure attachment style.

And regardless of who you related to, this class is for you, because whether you are secure or insecure, you will be in relationship with people who are both, and knowing about attachment theory and recognizing and knowing how to work with people with various attachment styles is one of the single most useful skill you can have in life. That is, unless you are alone and never need to relate to another soul again.

In this class, you will learn...

★ More deeply about the various attachment styles (including the lesser known but important one called “fearful anxious” aka “anxious avoidant” aka disorganized)
★ The various cultural archetypes associated with the various attachment styles, so you’ll begin to see them in all the mainstream stories and movies.
★ How sociopaths, narcissists and people with borderline fit within the various attachment styles.
★ To recognize the “smoking guns” of the various attachment styles
★ To engage well with people with various attachment styles, and have realistic expectations of them
★ The difference between “who you want” and “what you need” in relationships (tip: it’s what you’re lacking the most) and why these two often don’t align, and what it takes to make them align.
★ To experience and compare the somatic and emotional experience of engaging with each attachment style
★ To begin down the path of creating a more secure attachment style for yourself and others, and setting your life for success.

Here's a shorter version of the class description.

Classes @ SoulPlay Festival 2019

Classes @ SoulPlay Festival 2019

About SoulPlay Festival

SoulPlay Festival is a multi-day conscious gathering focused on heart-opening connection, personal expansion and blissful dance. As a community, we come together to connect, explore new things, and grow. We will get grounded in our bodies and feel the immense love that is all around us. The love that IS us. 

We invite you experience a new way of being. A way of truth and purity of nature. Whether through movement, speaking, touch, breathing or deep reflection, you will find your truth within, and it will be beautiful.

The classes I will be teaching at SoulPlay Festival:

Attachment Theory: A New Way to Look at Intimacy

Attachment Theory is the remarkable view of relationships that seems to pretty much explain EVERYTHING about how people can be secure or insecure in relationship and how regardless of your attachment style you will be in relationship with people who are both. Knowing about attachment theory and recognizing and knowing how to work with people with various attachment styles is one of the single most useful skills you can have in life.

The Art of Sensation Play

Expand your repertoire of touch skills & role play in this fun, hot & playful class. Learn simple yet powerful ways to interact somatically with others such as caresses, nails, bites/nibbles, light hair pulling, spanking, wrestling, flirting/teasing & more. Then practice fun roles to use these skills with, such as the inner animal, the god/goddess, the nymph, & the fairy. All skills & roles will be taught in a container of consent for a pleasurable & powerful transformation for everyone.

Looking forward to seeing you there!

Classes @ Embrace Festival 2019

Classes @ Embrace Festival 2019

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Stay tuned for the full list of classes I will be teaching at Embrace Festival.

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About Embrace Festival:

Embrace your world – your way!

This festival has been lovingly designed as a safe and supportive place to help you open up and say "Yes" to Life,’while embracing all of you, others, and the divine. Be a part of this amazing experience; as an opportunity to explore your edges, enjoy precious encounters, create deep connections, find community, and expand in bliss.

It will be a wonderful, transformative, juicy way to explore intimacy through the realms of Body - Mind - Heart and Connection, and grow your ability to give, receive and live in love.

Participate in a wide variety of playshops with top-notch presenters from North America sharing their talent through presentations, embodiment practices, ceremony and fun. Some of the topics include: conscious relating, Tantra, communication, mindfulness, yoga, dance, touch, and Men and Women's circles.

You're invited to come by yourself, with a partner or with friends. We welcome all genders, relationship constellations, cultural backgrounds, and experience levels.

Now is the time to embrace all of life, to love, and to celebrate.

Ride the waves of fun and pleasure of a brand new world in our favorite location in beautiful central Alberta. The Lazy M Lodge's mission is to "provide the opportunity to reconnect with self and nature," and to rest, relax, and recharge. This makes it a perfect fit for this festival, with an emphasis on the recharge! This year's festival will bring new energy to your life, and we're happy to be at this wonderful location where the magic can take place.

Accommodation Options

Book a shared room in one of the Lazy M Lodge's facilities $150
Sleep in the great outdoors for the weekend $50
Bring your own tent, RV or trailer!

Driving Distances

Edmonton, AB: 2 hours, 15 minutes
Calgary, AB: 1 hour, 45 minutes
Red Deer, AB: 1 hour